Tuesday 9 November 2010

Sub Space

Hope you all enjoyed Elle's last post, it was certainly a very enjoyable experience to be involved in ;-).

The advancing of Elle's submission seems to have helped along her hypnosis too (or maybe it's just a coincidence, but I don't believe in those...). She seems to be going deeper, both easier and quicker. Unfortunately, mundane life has taken over and this has meant that we haven't been able to use this new found deepness to its maximum.

However, something interesting happened the other night that I wanted to share with you all. Last month we bought a lovely new flogger at the London Fetish Weekend but hadn't had the chance to use it. Until the other night that was :D.

I put some Massive Attack on to listen to, turned the lights down and stripped Elle naked. The sensual and rhythmic beat of 'Teardrop' came on and I got to work with the flogger. Lightly and slowly at first to warm Elle's bottom up, getting gradually faster and harder. Changing angles and technique. Within 10-15 minutes, Elle asked to stop as she was feeling light-headed and 'spacey'. This was something that I had never seen her experience before, well not without any hypnotic triggers that is! It seemed she was beginning to go into trance, all by her self and without any suggestion to do so from myself.

The longer we played, the more intense both the play and Elle's trance became. This wasn't a usual hypnotic trance though. This was different, a kind of blend between Elle's usual trance state and what we've heard described before as 'Sub Space'. This whole Sub Space thing is very knew to us (you're help would be appreciated on that...) but it seems that it is like a rush of endorphins that Subs feel when they are involved in a play session. It was wonderful to watch Elle go into this 'space', it seemed a very erotically charged trance like nothing I had seen her experience before. Something to explore some more I think. And if it means that I have to get the flogger out again, then so be it. It's the price I have to pay to explore trance more in depth :D.

After we had finished with the flogger and Elle was lying on our bed very spacey, and incredibly happy I might add, I figured we should do some more 'formal' hypnosis trancing. She dropped deep, and very quickly! I've been using a technique that I managed to pick up at one of the hypno meets and it's been working rather well. It goes a bit like this 'You know, that no matter how deep you are now, you can go even deeper. Let me know when you are as deep as you can go' Repeat this a few times and you'll have a ridiculously deep subject on your hands ;-). I guess being 90% already in trance anyway kind of helped though.

While at the Bristol meet, Lex had used their *spank* trigger on Liz. This is basically what itsays on the tin, when Lex says *spank*, Liz feels a sharp, short spank on her bottom. Simples! We had a brief discussion about the best way to go about setting up such a trigger and Liz suggested that I should spank Elle in a set rhythmic pattern and then miss one while telling Elle that she wouldn't notice. Thus allowing me to connect the word *spank* to the feeling. Well seeing as I had a bit of a sore arm from all that flogging I decided to save my hand the pain of spanking Elle and got the cane out instead.

Off I went at a nice slow pace - *spank* - combined with a - 'thwack' - of the cane. Over and over again. After a while there was a *spank* but I didn't 'thwack' with the cane, Elle still wriggled, squirmed and yelped as if the thwack had been there. Promising. I carried on for a good few minutes more, occasionally missing out the 'thwack' but still saying the *spank*. It worked perfectly, and continued to work perfectly once I had brought Elle out of trance too. I haven't had the opportunity to see if it still works today but I'm sure it won't take much to get it to work again if it has worn off slightly.

Tips, tricks and all other comments are welcome as always!


Jay

Tuesday 26 October 2010

Exploring my sub side further

Recently Jay has been asking me what I want out of hypnosis, and to this I answered, “I don’t know” because genuinely, I don’t. Jay was the one who first got into hypnosis, and being the good sub I am, I have just gone a long with him, enjoying all these new weird and wonderful experiences. I had never really thought about where I wanted this to end up on a deeper level. Improving my amnesia skills and one day having the ability to see magical creatures both appeal though.

So I decided to ask him where he would like to go with hyno and got the simple answer “complete control” my reaction to this was very much spilt, half of me (probably Trixie’s influence) got very excited and turned on straight away but the other half was very scared!

It is not that I do not trust Jay, far from it, but part of me just panicked. I’m a very creative person, with at times strong opinions and being ‘different’ is such a big part of me so I think the side of me that was scared was worried that I would lose this free spirited part of myself if I give myself to him fully.

That night Jay tried getting me to give myself over to him by confessing it out loud that he owned me, all of me, and at the time high on my need for an orgasm and a little of Trixie popping in it was all fine, in fact it was very good and a real turn on. But the next day something changed and I freaked out about it due to the above reasons and other pressures in my life.

Over the next few days we spoke more and more about it all not really coming up with a solution. Then we decided to use a script written by Lex to work on giving Jay a trigger to completely control me. This wasn’t like Trixie were she is a slave but has her own mind, it’s more mindless and controlled. We played with this throughout the week getting great results and I was really enjoying it.

So this last weekend, Jay and I were heading to a hypno meet in Bristol, meeting up with some like-minded hypnotists and hypnotees. We went to show off our new skills and pick up some help and advice.

The weekend went down a treat, we learnt a lot of good tips on how to improve certain aspects and Jay and Lex had fun playing with mine and Liz’s triggers in the hotel bar, causing a lot of frustration for both us, and I’m sure for the onlookers. But the best part came when we went to bed, as it usually does ;). As Jay and Lex had kept playing with my hornyness, I was very horny by the time we were heading to bed, sadly Jay said he was not so I asked him to play with our orgasm scale before I exploded, but he did a lot more then that :-).

Jay decided he wanted to try and completely control me again after the success we had had with the script. We sat and talked about it and worked out my issues, and he promised to work with me so that this time I did not freak out, and so he began. He started with getting me to move my mind into his hands, much like we do with pain, pushing out those thoughts and feelings but this time I was also giving my fears and all my thoughts away making me blank. I think because when we move the pain out into his hands we give the pain a colour I gave my thoughts a colour, or more a glow!!! So as my thoughts moved into Jay he started to light up with a glow (and yes I know this sounds a little crazy) and when they came back we were connected through this glow, becoming truly one (again I know it sounds a little crazy but really this is how it felt). I was so intoxicated by this glow and felt so connected to Jay that it was easy to give over control and not stop myself giving everything to Jay. This felt so good and so intense even recalling it now has got me excited and almost out of breath, this ended in me having a great orgasm which seemed to last continuously for about 5 minutes, which as you can imagine was simply AMAZING!

The next morning I didn’t feel any different to the night before like the first time we tried this. I still felt relaxed and at ease with all that happened and like I said before even recalling it has made me horny so hopefully this good feeling will last and we can really use it enhance everything else.


Elle

Thursday 21 October 2010

New feature

I've decided to add 'Reactions' to the blog posts.

There are now three options 'Interesting', '*Hottt*' and 'Other'. So if you find a post thought provoking, or well... interesting, then tick the Interesting box. If the post did something for you, made you a little 'hot under the collar' etc, then tick *Hottt*. Finally, if it was neither of those then tick Other and feel free to post your comments as to what the Other thing you thought of the post was!


Jay

The strange case of Trixie...

Once again I'm going to post about something that happened a few months ago. I really should keep up with the blog posts from now on...

On the evening in question, we had been to a family party. As often happens on these kind of occasions, copious amounts of alcohol were consumed by all concerned. While Elle wasn't incredibly drunk this night, she was well past the stage of being tipsy and there may have been a slight sway to her stance by the end of the evening :P.

The party wound down about 1am and off we went to bed and as is often the case after a drink or ten, Elle was feeling rather frisky. Cue the jumping onto Jay and a prod or two demanding sex. Out of nowhere the oh so recognisable 'butter wouldn't melt' voice of Trixie popped out. Trixie speaks in a slightly softer voice with a very teasing and naughty tint to it you see. While I was rather puzzled to see Trixie pop out all of her own accord, the strangest thing was that she seemed rather sober. The drunken slurring had gone, her eyes able to fully focus and the sway had disappeared.

I'm sure this is very hard to believe. It was indeed difficult for me to get my head round at the time but somehow, Elle had managed to go from being rather drunk to perfectly sober in the space of a few seconds. Once the deed was done, Trixie went back to the recesses of Elle's mind and I once again had a rather drunk girlfriend on my hands. It was an instant change and mind boggling to watch.

I have no explanation for what went on at all but I thought I'd share and see if anyone can come up with any possibilities!


Jay

Tuesday 19 October 2010

Trixie, Cindy and Frankie

A (long) while ago I promised to write a post about a few 'characters' that we had been utilising. While Cindy and Frankie haven't been brought out in a while there have been a few interesting developments with Trixie so I thought it would still be worth a post. That and I'm working on a much longer post, though it may never actually make its way on here...

Those who have made their way through our other posts will have seen Elle's post in August where she briefly discussed these characters of hers. As she said at the time, the use of these characters stemmed from my attempts to talk directly to Elle's subconscious (à la the BDSM Hypnosis Blog). When this didn't quite work we had a talk about how it felt and what had gone on. Elle said that while she didn't feel like the trancing had had much effect on bringing her subconscious out, there had always been something there that had taken over slightly in the past. For her, this was her submissive side. In her every day life, Elle is fairly dominant, very strong willed and likes to be in control. There is, however, this other side to her. Now, I'm in no means talking about a split personality or anything close to this. Simply that she has a truly submissive side. Something she often battles with, but rarely succeeds in taming when it comes to me.

We had a chat about it (the exact words I can no longer remember) and Elle identified that this could be part of her subconscious. This conclusion was more logical at the time but like I say, I have no recollection of the actual conversation. I decided that if her subconscious refused to come out and play simply by being asked, I get a little more persuasive and see if I could coax it out. I figured that by suppressing some of Elle's characteristics that didn't relate to her vision of her subconscious it might allow it to come through a bit clearer. In the beginning it didn't really. I negated the downsides of this failure by enjoying the new trigger to turn Elle into this wonderfully submissive girl :D. After a while, I decided this character needed a name so I put Elle into trance and asked her to name it. After a little while the answer came back 'My name is Trixie, Master.'

Over the last few months, Trixie has grown more and more. She has more of her own personality (though still VERY much Elle). She kisses differently. Touches differently. In fact she does a lot of things differently ;-). She also has far fewer boundaries and hang-ups, something that no doubt relates to the removal of Elle's worries when she switches to Trixie. Trixie also has a little habit of taking control of Elle. I'm fairly certain this is instigated by Elle herself but she says differently. Hmmm. In this post I wish to stick to the topic of the characters so I will save a puzzling little story about Trixie for another post.

Then there are Cindy and Frankie. These two are far less complex. They are basically just Elle acting out roles. Cindy is a porn star. A shit kisser (always looking for those angles to the camera lol) but great at urmmm, other things... Frankie was originally a stripper that we had the pleasure of dancing for us at a strip club we went to. When we got home I decided it'd be a good idea to create Elle a stripper character, and for posterity of such a wonderful dance, I named this character Frankie. Frankie doesn't really kiss, won't usually do naughty things but is an outstanding dancer! Basically what you would expect of a stripper.

The interesting bit about these other two characters that while they are just Elle acting a part, she becomes them. Thinks like a stipper/porn star, acts like them and finally does their roles rather(/worryingly lol) well too.

I'll get that interesting post about Trixie up soon too. Hope everyone is still enjoying the read. Feel free to put a link to the blog on sites that may have a readership who would enjoy it.

Jay

Thursday 23 September 2010

Blanking and Freezing

Back in June I posted about how we were having success with a blank trigger, reading it back now I think I was being slightly optimistic! Elle (after a great deal of pressure from a couple of regular readers I will no longer be using single letters for our names!) was feeling very trapped when her blank trigger was used and in hindsight, not going very 'blank' at all. While we had also tried out a freeze trigger, that was something that Elle found annoyingly easy to break free of. That obviously wouldn't do, would it now?!

As these things so often start out for us, Elle bet me that an induction using a swinging watch wouldn't work. (why does she persist with the idea that I can't turn ANYTHING I want into an induction :-D ). Well we didn't have a swinging watch to hand so a long necklace had to do. As soon as Elle's eyes were fixed on the necklace and I had started my patter, I could see her beginning to drift into trance. Rather than allow her to close her eyes and drift into a normal trance, I instructed that her eyes would stay wide open, completely fixated on the necklace. I could see her eyes narrowing in, pure concentration on the slow swing.

Once she was sufficiently deep, I began to get her muscles to freeze. One by one. Feeling all control of her muscles slowly drifting away. Completely frozen, just like a mannequin. Like she was made of plastic. I then got her eyes to stop following the necklace, but to fix on a distant point. A point that she wouldn't be able to actually focus on, just somewhere to maintain her eye fixation on. The fun bit came when she was completely frozen, I slowly encouraged her mind to just melt away. Her mind unable to hold on to any thought. Just like water slipping through her hands. The harder she tried to hold onto a thought, the quicker it would disappear from her mind. Until all thoughts were gone, her mind completely blank. It was bloody fun watching her face go completely blank, her facial muscles relaxed that extra bit more than usual, her eyes became completely defocused. A rather enjoyable sight!

During our 'hypno debrief' (as is customary for us these days when we have a success with something new) it turned out that Elle wasn't really aware of anything around her at the time of being blank as her mind was unable to hold onto the thought. However, upon waking, much of it came back as her mind was once again allowed to process the information.

There are a number of posts in the pipeline that I hope to have out soon!

Jay erotic hypnosis, hypnosis, blank hypnosis, mindless hypnosis, hypnosis mannequin

Wednesday 22 September 2010

Success with Amnesia...Kind of...

After L's post (sorry for the long delay in between posting...) 'Alexander' suggested a method for amnesia that we hadn't tried before. It consisted of putting the memory into a bubble. A bubble which, when touched, would allow full access to the memory and then when the hands are taken away, the memory would be inaccessible.

We did a gentle, relaxing induction followed by a good deal of deepening. A good time to mention a new deepening technique that I picked up a few weeks ago. Once in trance, simply suggest that the subject will go 'As deep as they know they can, all the way down, deeper than ever before'. And repeat this a couple of times, you should really see your subject going deeper and deeper.

So, once L was nice and deep I told her that everything I was about to say would be placed into a bubble. I told her that when I touched my nose, she would find herself INCREDIBLY turned on. To the point that she would instantly jump on me, uncontrollably and without a second thought. I knew the suggestion would work, it was whether she'd know why she was doing it that was the interesting part ;).

I brought L out of trance and carried on talking as if nothing had happened. I could tell that L knew she had been tranced but I wasn't going to ask whether she remembered what I had told her to forget, we've worked out this probably isn't the best way of going about things! After a couple of minutes I touched my nose. Bam. L was on my like a shot, telling me how horny she felt and how much she wanted me. Woop. After a little while ;-), I released her and asked her how that felt. She said it was very strange, that the feelings had come out of nowhere. I was doing mental leaps of joy right about now!

I then proceeded to tell L what I had done and asked her if she could remember it now. She couldn't. The mental leaps of joy were increasing in height! I then tranced her again and told her to put her hands onto the bubble again and allow the memory to come flooding back. Woke her up and asked her if she remembered. Still nothing. The memory had COMPLETELY gone. At this point neither of us were sure if this was a good or bad thing!

The interesting part of this post kind of ends here as no matter how hard we try, with the same wording and everything, we can not get L to forget anything again. We're back to simply 'blurry' memories again. Nothing will disappear!

Grrr. Advice is more than welcome!

More posts coming very soon (that's a promise this time).

J

Wednesday 4 August 2010

My first post

I thought it was finally time to write a post of my own! I’m even newer than J at this whole blog-posting thing so please bare with me. For now I’m just going to do a brief overview, so lets start at the beginning. Regular readers will have read about most of this before, for that I apologise.

When J first told me about his thoughts on trying hypnosis I was eager to try it out though never thought it would work, and wasn’t sure what we could really do with it. Little did I know.

Our first time we went through a long induction and J tried to get me use to the idea of my subconscious taking over, he managed to get my arm to lock, so it couldn’t move. It felt so strange because no matter how much I tried I could not get my arm to move, I was completely in his control. I think this really made me believe that J could hypnotise me and I was then ready to try much harder things. As the night went on he managed to get me to do all sorts of things, I remember laughing at a few of the suggestion thinking there is no way this will work, then the next thing I know I’m doing it, without a second thought. I think this is where I started to understand about the subconscious, it really did feel like I had no control and that my body was just taking over.

Even though this was such a success, there was one problem we had and that was getting my hand to stick to things.

We decided to go to a hypno meet in town to speak to other people who can and have been hypnotized to help us fine tune what we were doing. For me the main thing I wanted to know and that was how it works for them. There was one guy there, Parkey, who had been hypnotized and I found it really interesting and reassuring speaking to him. He told me that it took him a long time to do the harder things like forget, this made me feel better as I was worried I was just faking it as the harder bits weren’t working. He also helped me get ‘stuck’ to things, he told me to stop think it wasn’t stuck and just let it happen. And what do you know, it did happen.

Since then we have really started to progress, linking commands and trying to forget for longer. One way we are trying to do this is by J trying to talk to the subconscious, his thought is by speaking directly to her she can help him to make me forget. This is proving hard as my subconscious doesn’t like to speak too much, but we have created different ‘characters’. These are sometimes people J makes up, for example Frankie, who is a stripper but then there are ones that come more from me like Tirixie, who is, lets say, my naughty side. For me these characters seem almost normal, they take over; speak differently and, I’m told, kiss differently but for some reason this doesn’t freak me out like you might think. In fact, it’s the opposite - I quite enjoy it. The one thing I did find strange is one night J told Trixie to make me forget what we had just done, he told her to put the memories in a boat and push them over a cliff. When this happened I was the one in control but I heard Trixie laugh in my head! This was the first time I really thought of us as different people, and I think now from here she can start to become more apart from me hopefully making forgetting and more fun easier.

Hope you enjoyed my first post, I’ll try and get some more detailed posts up soon.

L

[J] - More to come about Trixie, Fankie and co. from me soon.

Monday 28 June 2010

Erotic Hypno Session

Can I start off by thanking those of you who left a comment on my previous post, it's greatly appreciated! Lets me know that there are actually people reading my posts lol. Enjoy...

The hypno session began with us both lying on the bed just staring at the ceiling enjoying a bit of down time. As I was lying there I noticed just how hypnotic the ceiling fan was, going round and round. Of course this set off the hypnotist light bulb in my mind. Next thing L knew, I had her eyes focused on the fan and I could see she was already starting to go. I had her close her eyes and guided her down deeper into trance. I must say I do love when L slips into trance, her head slinking off to the side and all her muscles instantly going ‘limp, and loose, and floppy’ then her eyes starting to flicker as she goes deeper into trance. Maybe it’s the fact she is lying there so relaxed and happy, maybe it’s because she looks so god damn sexy or more likely it’s because I know I now have near enough total control of her mind, but our hypno sessions always get me ridiculously horny!

I rarely plan ahead as to what I want to do in a hypno session but this time I had written a script for an instant orgasm trigger. While we have had success with arousal suggestions and pleasure triggers, they hadn't quite been strong enough for my liking. L has very intense orgasms and the hypno induced versions just hadn't quite matched up to her usual ones! I felt that writing the script would make sure that I could put a really good and strong suggestion together.

And it worked.

I started guiding L through the best of her past orgasms. Getting her to concentrate on exactly how they felt, all the sensations and body movements that she experiences. Her body was squirming and writhing all over the place within no time, her breathing deeper and her groaning getting louder. The time had come to intensify these feelings and hopefully take L's orgasm to a place they had rarely gone before. I had her turn up the dial in her mind that was linked directly to the intensity of her orgasm and told her that the orgasm would take over her entire body. Her whole body was now bucking and spasming uncontrollably.

What good is a suggestion if it can't be instantly repeated, any where, any time, any place? I instructed L that these feeling she was experiencing would reappear instantly and just as uncontrollably whenever I said the words *orgasm now*. Needless to say, I had a great deal of fun utilising that over the days that followed, not always at particularly comfortable times for L. Jeez, I really can be evil at times :D

That reminds me, I haven't used it in a few days now..


J

Monday 7 June 2010

Last couple of weeks

Time for an update.

L and I are finally back together full time, which means we've been having lots of fun in the last couple of weeks. I'm aware that this could turn into one long ramble but I shall try my best to prevent that from happening!

So, hypno highlights from the last couple of weeks - The beginnings of amnesia are starting to take hold, L now has a *blank* trigger that is becoming more and more effective, I have had my first real success at hypnotising someone other than L (and my first failure), we've attended our first hypno-meet and last, but by no means least, L's now able to be *stuck* to things!

As I discussed in my previous post, I wanted to explore amnesia with L. Over the last couple of weeks, I have been introducing it more regularly into L's trances. What had occurred while she was in trance had started to get fuzzier and fuzzier until the other day when she completely forgot what had happened! Needless to say, she was slightly confused when she came round and she was no longer wearing a bra and her t-shirt was on back to front :P. With more work I'm sure that we'll have amnesia fully working and ready to be used to its maximum in no time at all! I also gave L a *blank* trigger, at first it was something she really didn't enjoy as she apparently felt very 'trapped'. With constant reassurance and a 'feel good' link -"The more blank you become, the happier you will feel" the feeling of being 'trapped' is reduced but still not to the level that I am happy to use this trigger too often. I think I may need to reevaluate my approach to the *blank* suggestion and structure it in a different way that will leave L sinking into a much happier state.

Now to my first hypno success with someone other than L. In the interest of full disclosure, I should mention that the person that I hypnotised was a friend (who for the purpose of this blog will be known as 'E') and had been hypnotised during a stage show previously. It was still good to practice my instant induction techniques on someone who doesn't drop into trance quite as quickly as L! (She now tends to drop before I'm even half way through my patter! ). E was a great subject, I did an 8 word induction on her and she went under straight away, even though we were in an incredibly loud pub beer-garden and our rather large group of friends were all staring. I guess you really can hypnotise people anywhere, anytime. I ran through a few simple suggestions with E, name amnesia, unable to speak, stuck hands, unable to drink and uncontrollable laughter. This last one is becoming a favourite in order to prove to people that someone really is hypnotised. It is embarrassing enough (in busy places as it draws a fair bit of attention and dodgy looks) that people can see that someone wouldn't fake it but not embarrassing enough that the subject wants to wake up and hit you!

While the turnout wasn't great for our first hypno-meet, there were only 5 of us in total, it was an enjoyable and informative evening. Good to meet fellow hypnotists and learn a bit more! Possibly the most beneficial part of the evening was that L was taught how to get stuck! I think how what was said to her affected her ability to follow a *stuck* suggestion would be a very interesting first post for L, so I think I shall leave that to her. She will be receiving a suggestion to get writing her first post very soon so you shouldn't have to wait long!

Here we are at the end of another post. I hope that you are enjoying following us on our journey and I would really like to hear from anyone who reads this as to what you would like to hear more about in the future, so please do get in touch!

J

Thursday 20 May 2010

Planning ahead.

It has been nearly three weeks since I've seen L now and it's getting difficult. To go from such an amazing weekend learning and practicing my new found talent to three whole weeks without being able to properly use it has not been fun. Due to university commitments, I haven't even been able to go out and get some practice in with any new subjects.

I'm starting to put together a list of all the weird and wonderful things that I am going to plant into L's mind when we're back together so I thought I would share a couple with you all.

High up on my list of priorities is developing amnesia into my suggestions. As much fun as it is to see L not believing a suggestion has worked, then resisting it and then finally succumbing to the compulsion to carry it out, we have both agreed that it would be mighty fun for me to be able to plant suggestions that she has no recollection of until she finds herself being triggered. An interesting post by Dan here has changed my mind on how I might go about this. Up until reading that post, I was of the impression that the key to amnesia was a very deep state of trance. Now I am thinking slightly differently and will change tact next time. L is always very much aware of what I am saying while in trance but instead of trying to combat this I will be concentrating on inducing amnesia from the moment L is brought back round. That post by Dan has also made me want a *Blank* trigger. Badly. Every man's dream, no?

Having had a good deal of success with hypno stimulation, this is something I'm interested in expanding on. Especially in public through the use of arousal triggers ;-). Is there a better way to cheer up another night down the pub than to induce orgasms in your partner simply by stroking a finger, maybe by a simple kiss or even just a click of the fingers? Personally, I think not.

Oh and lets not forget, my nemesis - the *stuck* trigger. I will get it to work. Even if it's the last thing I do!

Well I shall keep you all updated on our progress, and hopefully you will all get to read things from L's perspective in the not too distant future!


J

Monday 17 May 2010

Online Hypnosis

As we are both university students in our final year (exam time...yay :-| ) we've been apart for a couple of weeks and still have a little while till we are together again, we often utilise the wonder that is Skype to stay in touch on those long, lonely evenings. A few evenings ago I brought up the idea of trying some online hypnosis and L was game so we gave it a go. I had been getting together and memorising a magnetic hands induction. Well no so much memorising, just making sure that I would remember to get in all the bits that I wanted to, setting up the expectation correctly through a good pre-talk etc. This was less for the benefit of L and more with a view to my planned hypno exploits with friends and impromptu sessions in the future.

I went through my spiel, and right enough she was under within 30-45 seconds. She actually started going under before I had reached the end of my planned spiel, but I guess I shouldn't complain at that too much :P. I could see that the trance she was in wasn't particularly deep, but I kind of expected that with it being our first session without any physical contact. Once again I tried my old nemesis, the 'stuck' suggestion, once again I had no luck. I have resolved to master it at some point in the not too distant future! Moved onto arm catalepsy, had reasonable success but L was soon able to break free. I have started to notice that L is developing a 'Ha, didn't get me that time' face, this of course just spurs me on to succeed the next time!

What I have learnt so far, is that L responds much better to mental commands. Whether it be a change of emotion, convincing her that she was actually the best hypnotist in the world (this was actually the funniest thing I've witnessed in a long time so will save it for a blog post all of its own) or slight amnesia. I decided to go with a number blank suggestion, the number in question being '3'. Having watched a few YouTube clips of this recently, I had picked up a technique that involved saying the 'number between 2 and 4' instead of directly referring to the number '3'. I had brief success but the number '3' quickly popped back into her mind and so I moved on.

I am developing a real love for L's expression when I give her an amnesia suggestion and she goes looking for the information needed in her brain, finds it but then simply can't express it. For this reason, I decided it would be fun to remove my name from her mind. I then proceeded to chuckle away to myself as I watched her try to say it, all the while teasing her about how the information she needed was on the tip of her tongue but that she wouldn't be able to say it. I then allowed her to have my name back but took away her own. The teasing continued but this time in a 'you've had that name for 22 years and you can't remember it' kind of way. She loves it really. :P

Afterwards as we were doing our usual 'hypno debrief' L informed me that she was finding it very hard to reach any decent state of deepness. The lack of good visual, auditory and physical contact are not a good combination. I have no doubt that people achieve deep levels of trance through the use of internet alone, but I guess it's just not the way for us.

As much fun as out short online session was, I think we'll stick to real life hypnosis from now on!


J

Tuesday 11 May 2010

First Attempt

The reading was done, the Dave Elman induction chosen and my confidence was sky high.

I went through a little pre-talk I had come up with and then worked my way through the induction that I had slightly modified. All the signs were good, L was clearly going under. After using a few deepeners I felt it was time to plant a post hypnotic suggestion that L would return to a hypnotic state whenever she was given the command to sleep. I woke her up and asked her how it felt, she said she felt good and it was a strange experience. Then I commanded her to sleep, and to my genuine surprise it worked. She was back under. At this point I have to admit it was quite hard not to jump up and down with excitement but I managed to compose myself and carry on.

I worked through another deepener and figured it was time to try some suggestions out. The first suggestion I gave was that her hands would become stuck to the sofa, brought her back up and nothing. Her hands were nowhere near stuck. In an effort not to lose confidence and momentum, I put L back under and told her she'd no longer be able to bend her arm. Her arm would now be a single block of wood with no bends or joints. Then I instructed her to try and bend her arm, this time I had succeeded. Once again the desire to jump up and down, and do a jig of happiness washed over me but somehow I managed to keep my composure again. Back under she went and I tried out a few other suggestions, some which worked, some didn’t. I didn’t much care what worked and what didn’t at this point as I was still in shock that L had gone into trance and was reacting perfectly to her sleep commands.

We made our way to the kitchen to grab a drink when in a moment of excitement at my newfound skill, I commanded her to sleep. I couldn’t think of anything to try, I had worked through all the mundane hypno suggestions I could think of. Then a light bulb went off – why not see if you can get some sexual fun out of all this hypno stuff. “In a moment I’m going to get you to wake up, when you do, you will have the overwhelming desire to give me the a blow job”. Then lightbulb number two – “Infact, you will give me the best blow job in the world, the best blowjob that anyone has ever given in the history of blowjobs” (or something to that effect at least). Now, I didn’t expect this to work. I don’t think L did either, actually when I brought her up, the first thing she said to me was “that didn’t work”. Literally as she had finished those words she grabbed me by the trousers and dragged me to the bedroom. Next thing I know I am on the receiving end of a bloody good blowjob, I’d even go as far as to say the best blowjob in the world :P. Some may say that she was just acting, that this was nothing to do with hypnosis. What convinced me that this was not ‘faking’ or ‘playing along’ was the fact that somehow, her gag reflex had completely disappeared. Completely. We did, in the interest of research, try a non-hypnotised ‘best blowjob in the world’ later on and her gag reflex had returned. Weird. It’s amazing the power the mind has over the body!

There were far too many suggestions planted over the weekend to list them all but here are a few of my favorites. Transplanting all clitoral feeling into L’s nipples, then her fingers and finally, the tip of her nose which was particularly fun :-D. As was installing a 1-10 pleasure scale, 1 being light stimulation and 10 a full blown orgasm. What was particularly fun about this was that I planted it while we were making food, lets just say that L found it particularly difficult to make her food while bordering on an orgasm hehe. One thing that was interesting was that we have found that while L can get very close to an orgasm, she can’t actually get a full release purely through hypno stimulation. Something for us to work on.

What I consider the most powerful suggestion that I used over the weekend was one where I managed to get L to forget my name and replace it with Master. Now, this is something she calls me when I desire, and usually while in play, but to get her to completely forget my name was an interesting experience and I feel my biggest hypnotic accomplishment so far. When I asked my name the reply came “Master”. “No, what’s my real name?”. “It’s Master, I’ve never been allowed to know your real name” came the reply. I found it very interesting how when her brain couldn’t find the information that it needed, it made a story to fill in the gap. Not that her submission needs much encouraging most of the time, but I added in a suggestion or two about how she would become incredibly submissive. Ahhh, the fun I had with that one :D.

It isn’t half fun to be able to switch your girlfriend between horny, submissive or just plain old happy and energetic!

Enough for now, it’ll be a few weeks till our next hypno exploit so I’ll update then. Who knows, I may even remember something interesting enough to blog about, or remember something I forgot to mention, in the meantime.

J

Hello and Welcome!

Welcome to our blog, Hypnorotica!

Before we get into the hypno side of things it's probably best I give a little background. I'm one half of a couple who have recently found the wonders of hypnosis. We're a very normal couple. Well we like to think we're normal anyway. We have a large number of kinks and they will no doubt come out over time through this blog so we won't send you running in fear just yet... :-D. So now to the reason for this blog -The plan is to detail our progression through the world of hypnosis and get/give advice and help along the way.

A few months ago while trawling through profiles on Collarme, a sort of personals site for those into BDSM (that's kink one out of the bag then lol), I stumbled across the profile of a couple that are into hypnosis. Before that moment, I had always thought of hypnosis as something done on stage with the sole purpose of embarrassing the hell out of volunteers or being used to help people quit smoking and the like. Suddenly, my eyes were opened to a world of wonderful new possibilities.After an email to said couple and a very helpful reply, it was time to try hypnosis for the first time. It was, as many first times are, a complete let down. I had no clue what I was doing but nevertheless I expected it to work. So 10 minutes later we decided to file it away as a failed experience and then didn’t really think any more about it.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago and while trying desperately hard to avoid doing any university work I decided it was time to give hypnosis a second go.This time I did my research correctly. I found some good inductions online and I read about how these inductions work. It’s a lot to take in to start with, but my goodness was it worth it!

For now, I shall leave it there. The next entry will detail what actually happened in my first attempt and is already in the process of being written so should be up soon.If anyone actually ever stumbles across this then do please feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think. Hopefully, I will be able to convince L to write an entry in the not to distant future too!

J