Sub Space

Hope you all enjoyed Elle's last post, it was certainly a very enjoyable experience to be involved in ;-).

The advancing of Elle's submission seems to have helped along her hypnosis too (or maybe it's just a coincidence, but I don't believe in those...). She seems to be going deeper, both easier and quicker. Unfortunately, mundane life has taken over and this has meant that we haven't been able to use this new found deepness to its maximum.

However, something interesting happened the other night that I wanted to share with you all. Last month we bought a lovely new flogger at the London Fetish Weekend but hadn't had the chance to use it. Until the other night that was :D.

I put some Massive Attack on to listen to, turned the lights down and stripped Elle naked. The sensual and rhythmic beat of 'Teardrop' came on and I got to work with the flogger. Lightly and slowly at first to warm Elle's bottom up, getting gradually faster and harder. Changing angles and technique. Within 10-15 minutes, Elle asked to stop as she was feeling light-headed and 'spacey'. This was something that I had never seen her experience before, well not without any hypnotic triggers that is! It seemed she was beginning to go into trance, all by her self and without any suggestion to do so from myself.

The longer we played, the more intense both the play and Elle's trance became. This wasn't a usual hypnotic trance though. This was different, a kind of blend between Elle's usual trance state and what we've heard described before as 'Sub Space'. This whole Sub Space thing is very knew to us (you're help would be appreciated on that...) but it seems that it is like a rush of endorphins that Subs feel when they are involved in a play session. It was wonderful to watch Elle go into this 'space', it seemed a very erotically charged trance like nothing I had seen her experience before. Something to explore some more I think. And if it means that I have to get the flogger out again, then so be it. It's the price I have to pay to explore trance more in depth :D.

After we had finished with the flogger and Elle was lying on our bed very spacey, and incredibly happy I might add, I figured we should do some more 'formal' hypnosis trancing. She dropped deep, and very quickly! I've been using a technique that I managed to pick up at one of the hypno meets and it's been working rather well. It goes a bit like this 'You know, that no matter how deep you are now, you can go even deeper. Let me know when you are as deep as you can go' Repeat this a few times and you'll have a ridiculously deep subject on your hands ;-). I guess being 90% already in trance anyway kind of helped though.

While at the Bristol meet, Lex had used their *spank* trigger on Liz. This is basically what itsays on the tin, when Lex says *spank*, Liz feels a sharp, short spank on her bottom. Simples! We had a brief discussion about the best way to go about setting up such a trigger and Liz suggested that I should spank Elle in a set rhythmic pattern and then miss one while telling Elle that she wouldn't notice. Thus allowing me to connect the word *spank* to the feeling. Well seeing as I had a bit of a sore arm from all that flogging I decided to save my hand the pain of spanking Elle and got the cane out instead.

Off I went at a nice slow pace - *spank* - combined with a - 'thwack' - of the cane. Over and over again. After a while there was a *spank* but I didn't 'thwack' with the cane, Elle still wriggled, squirmed and yelped as if the thwack had been there. Promising. I carried on for a good few minutes more, occasionally missing out the 'thwack' but still saying the *spank*. It worked perfectly, and continued to work perfectly once I had brought Elle out of trance too. I haven't had the opportunity to see if it still works today but I'm sure it won't take much to get it to work again if it has worn off slightly.

Tips, tricks and all other comments are welcome as always!

Jay

Exploring my sub side further

Recently Jay has been asking me what I want out of hypnosis, and to this I answered, “I don’t know” because genuinely, I don’t. Jay was the one who first got into hypnosis, and being the good sub I am, I have just gone a long with him, enjoying all these new weird and wonderful experiences. I had never really thought about where I wanted this to end up on a deeper level. Improving my amnesia skills and one day having the ability to see magical creatures both appeal though.

So I decided to ask him where he would like to go with hyno and got the simple answer “complete control” my reaction to this was very much spilt, half of me (probably Trixie’s influence) got very excited and turned on straight away but the other half was very scared!

It is not that I do not trust Jay, far from it, but part of me just panicked. I’m a very creative person, with at times strong opinions and being ‘different’ is such a big part of me so I think the side of me that was scared was worried that I would lose this free spirited part of myself if I give myself to him fully.

That night Jay tried getting me to give myself over to him by confessing it out loud that he owned me, all of me, and at the time high on my need for an orgasm and a little of Trixie popping in it was all fine, in fact it was very good and a real turn on. But the next day something changed and I freaked out about it due to the above reasons and other pressures in my life.

Over the next few days we spoke more and more about it all not really coming up with a solution. Then we decided to use a script written by Lex to work on giving Jay a trigger to completely control me. This wasn’t like Trixie were she is a slave but has her own mind, it’s more mindless and controlled. We played with this throughout the week getting great results and I was really enjoying it.

So this last weekend, Jay and I were heading to a hypno meet in Bristol, meeting up with some like-minded hypnotists and hypnotees. We went to show off our new skills and pick up some help and advice.

The weekend went down a treat, we learnt a lot of good tips on how to improve certain aspects and Jay and Lex had fun playing with mine and Liz’s triggers in the hotel bar, causing a lot of frustration for both us, and I’m sure for the onlookers. But the best part came when we went to bed, as it usually does ;). As Jay and Lex had kept playing with my hornyness, I was very horny by the time we were heading to bed, sadly Jay said he was not so I asked him to play with our orgasm scale before I exploded, but he did a lot more then that :-).

Jay decided he wanted to try and completely control me again after the success we had had with the script. We sat and talked about it and worked out my issues, and he promised to work with me so that this time I did not freak out, and so he began. He started with getting me to move my mind into his hands, much like we do with pain, pushing out those thoughts and feelings but this time I was also giving my fears and all my thoughts away making me blank. I think because when we move the pain out into his hands we give the pain a colour I gave my thoughts a colour, or more a glow!!! So as my thoughts moved into Jay he started to light up with a glow (and yes I know this sounds a little crazy) and when they came back we were connected through this glow, becoming truly one (again I know it sounds a little crazy but really this is how it felt). I was so intoxicated by this glow and felt so connected to Jay that it was easy to give over control and not stop myself giving everything to Jay. This felt so good and so intense even recalling it now has got me excited and almost out of breath, this ended in me having a great orgasm which seemed to last continuously for about 5 minutes, which as you can imagine was simply AMAZING!

The next morning I didn’t feel any different to the night before like the first time we tried this. I still felt relaxed and at ease with all that happened and like I said before even recalling it has made me horny so hopefully this good feeling will last and we can really use it enhance everything else.

Elle

Hello and Welcome!

Welcome to our blog, Hypnorotica!

Before we get into the hypno side of things it's probably best I give a little background. I'm one half of a couple who have recently found the wonders of hypnosis. We're a very normal couple. Well we like to think we're normal anyway. We have a large number of kinks and they will no doubt come out over time through this blog so we won't send you running in fear just yet... :-D. So now to the reason for this blog -The plan is to detail our progression through the world of hypnosis and get/give advice and help along the way.

A few months ago while trawling through profiles on Collarme, a sort of personals site for those into BDSM (that's kink one out of the bag then lol), I stumbled across the profile of a couple that are into hypnosis. Before that moment, I had always thought of hypnosis as something done on stage with the sole purpose of embarrassing the hell out of volunteers or being used to help people quit smoking and the like. Suddenly, my eyes were opened to a world of wonderful new possibilities.After an email to said couple and a very helpful reply, it was time to try hypnosis for the first time. It was, as many first times are, a complete let down. I had no clue what I was doing but nevertheless I expected it to work. So 10 minutes later we decided to file it away as a failed experience and then didn’t really think any more about it.

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago and while trying desperately hard to avoid doing any university work I decided it was time to give hypnosis a second go.This time I did my research correctly. I found some good inductions online and I read about how these inductions work. It’s a lot to take in to start with, but my goodness was it worth it!

For now, I shall leave it there. The next entry will detail what actually happened in my first attempt and is already in the process of being written so should be up soon.If anyone actually ever stumbles across this then do please feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think. Hopefully, I will be able to convince L to write an entry in the not to distant future too!

J