It has been nearly three weeks since I've seen L now and it's getting difficult. To go from such an amazing weekend learning and practicing my new found talent to three whole weeks without being able to properly use it has not been fun. Due to university commitments, I haven't even been able to go out and get some practice in with any new subjects.
I'm starting to put together a list of all the weird and wonderful things that I am going to plant into L's mind when we're back together so I thought I would share a couple with you all.
High up on my list of priorities is developing amnesia into my suggestions. As much fun as it is to see L not believing a suggestion has worked, then resisting it and then finally succumbing to the compulsion to carry it out, we have both agreed that it would be mighty fun for me to be able to plant suggestions that she has no recollection of until she finds herself being triggered. An interesting post by Dan here has changed my mind on how I might go about this. Up until reading that post, I was of the impression that the key to amnesia was a very deep state of trance. Now I am thinking slightly differently and will change tact next time. L is always very much aware of what I am saying while in trance but instead of trying to combat this I will be concentrating on inducing amnesia from the moment L is brought back round. That post by Dan has also made me want a *Blank* trigger. Badly. Every man's dream, no?
Having had a good deal of success with hypno stimulation, this is something I'm interested in expanding on. Especially in public through the use of arousal triggers ;-). Is there a better way to cheer up another night down the pub than to induce orgasms in your partner simply by stroking a finger, maybe by a simple kiss or even just a click of the fingers? Personally, I think not.
Oh and lets not forget, my nemesis - the *stuck* trigger. I will get it to work. Even if it's the last thing I do!
Well I shall keep you all updated on our progress, and hopefully you will all get to read things from L's perspective in the not too distant future!
J
Thursday 20 May 2010
Monday 17 May 2010
Online Hypnosis
As we are both university students in our final year (exam time...yay :-| ) we've been apart for a couple of weeks and still have a little while till we are together again, we often utilise the wonder that is Skype to stay in touch on those long, lonely evenings. A few evenings ago I brought up the idea of trying some online hypnosis and L was game so we gave it a go. I had been getting together and memorising a magnetic hands induction. Well no so much memorising, just making sure that I would remember to get in all the bits that I wanted to, setting up the expectation correctly through a good pre-talk etc. This was less for the benefit of L and more with a view to my planned hypno exploits with friends and impromptu sessions in the future.
I went through my spiel, and right enough she was under within 30-45 seconds. She actually started going under before I had reached the end of my planned spiel, but I guess I shouldn't complain at that too much :P. I could see that the trance she was in wasn't particularly deep, but I kind of expected that with it being our first session without any physical contact. Once again I tried my old nemesis, the 'stuck' suggestion, once again I had no luck. I have resolved to master it at some point in the not too distant future! Moved onto arm catalepsy, had reasonable success but L was soon able to break free. I have started to notice that L is developing a 'Ha, didn't get me that time' face, this of course just spurs me on to succeed the next time!
What I have learnt so far, is that L responds much better to mental commands. Whether it be a change of emotion, convincing her that she was actually the best hypnotist in the world (this was actually the funniest thing I've witnessed in a long time so will save it for a blog post all of its own) or slight amnesia. I decided to go with a number blank suggestion, the number in question being '3'. Having watched a few YouTube clips of this recently, I had picked up a technique that involved saying the 'number between 2 and 4' instead of directly referring to the number '3'. I had brief success but the number '3' quickly popped back into her mind and so I moved on.
I am developing a real love for L's expression when I give her an amnesia suggestion and she goes looking for the information needed in her brain, finds it but then simply can't express it. For this reason, I decided it would be fun to remove my name from her mind. I then proceeded to chuckle away to myself as I watched her try to say it, all the while teasing her about how the information she needed was on the tip of her tongue but that she wouldn't be able to say it. I then allowed her to have my name back but took away her own. The teasing continued but this time in a 'you've had that name for 22 years and you can't remember it' kind of way. She loves it really. :P
Afterwards as we were doing our usual 'hypno debrief' L informed me that she was finding it very hard to reach any decent state of deepness. The lack of good visual, auditory and physical contact are not a good combination. I have no doubt that people achieve deep levels of trance through the use of internet alone, but I guess it's just not the way for us.
As much fun as out short online session was, I think we'll stick to real life hypnosis from now on!
I went through my spiel, and right enough she was under within 30-45 seconds. She actually started going under before I had reached the end of my planned spiel, but I guess I shouldn't complain at that too much :P. I could see that the trance she was in wasn't particularly deep, but I kind of expected that with it being our first session without any physical contact. Once again I tried my old nemesis, the 'stuck' suggestion, once again I had no luck. I have resolved to master it at some point in the not too distant future! Moved onto arm catalepsy, had reasonable success but L was soon able to break free. I have started to notice that L is developing a 'Ha, didn't get me that time' face, this of course just spurs me on to succeed the next time!
What I have learnt so far, is that L responds much better to mental commands. Whether it be a change of emotion, convincing her that she was actually the best hypnotist in the world (this was actually the funniest thing I've witnessed in a long time so will save it for a blog post all of its own) or slight amnesia. I decided to go with a number blank suggestion, the number in question being '3'. Having watched a few YouTube clips of this recently, I had picked up a technique that involved saying the 'number between 2 and 4' instead of directly referring to the number '3'. I had brief success but the number '3' quickly popped back into her mind and so I moved on.
I am developing a real love for L's expression when I give her an amnesia suggestion and she goes looking for the information needed in her brain, finds it but then simply can't express it. For this reason, I decided it would be fun to remove my name from her mind. I then proceeded to chuckle away to myself as I watched her try to say it, all the while teasing her about how the information she needed was on the tip of her tongue but that she wouldn't be able to say it. I then allowed her to have my name back but took away her own. The teasing continued but this time in a 'you've had that name for 22 years and you can't remember it' kind of way. She loves it really. :P
Afterwards as we were doing our usual 'hypno debrief' L informed me that she was finding it very hard to reach any decent state of deepness. The lack of good visual, auditory and physical contact are not a good combination. I have no doubt that people achieve deep levels of trance through the use of internet alone, but I guess it's just not the way for us.
As much fun as out short online session was, I think we'll stick to real life hypnosis from now on!
J
Tuesday 11 May 2010
First Attempt
The reading was done, the Dave Elman induction chosen and my confidence was sky high.
I went through a little pre-talk I had come up with and then worked my way through the induction that I had slightly modified. All the signs were good, L was clearly going under. After using a few deepeners I felt it was time to plant a post hypnotic suggestion that L would return to a hypnotic state whenever she was given the command to sleep. I woke her up and asked her how it felt, she said she felt good and it was a strange experience. Then I commanded her to sleep, and to my genuine surprise it worked. She was back under. At this point I have to admit it was quite hard not to jump up and down with excitement but I managed to compose myself and carry on.
I worked through another deepener and figured it was time to try some suggestions out. The first suggestion I gave was that her hands would become stuck to the sofa, brought her back up and nothing. Her hands were nowhere near stuck. In an effort not to lose confidence and momentum, I put L back under and told her she'd no longer be able to bend her arm. Her arm would now be a single block of wood with no bends or joints. Then I instructed her to try and bend her arm, this time I had succeeded. Once again the desire to jump up and down, and do a jig of happiness washed over me but somehow I managed to keep my composure again. Back under she went and I tried out a few other suggestions, some which worked, some didn’t. I didn’t much care what worked and what didn’t at this point as I was still in shock that L had gone into trance and was reacting perfectly to her sleep commands.
We made our way to the kitchen to grab a drink when in a moment of excitement at my newfound skill, I commanded her to sleep. I couldn’t think of anything to try, I had worked through all the mundane hypno suggestions I could think of. Then a light bulb went off – why not see if you can get some sexual fun out of all this hypno stuff. “In a moment I’m going to get you to wake up, when you do, you will have the overwhelming desire to give me the a blow job”. Then lightbulb number two – “Infact, you will give me the best blow job in the world, the best blowjob that anyone has ever given in the history of blowjobs” (or something to that effect at least). Now, I didn’t expect this to work. I don’t think L did either, actually when I brought her up, the first thing she said to me was “that didn’t work”. Literally as she had finished those words she grabbed me by the trousers and dragged me to the bedroom. Next thing I know I am on the receiving end of a bloody good blowjob, I’d even go as far as to say the best blowjob in the world :P. Some may say that she was just acting, that this was nothing to do with hypnosis. What convinced me that this was not ‘faking’ or ‘playing along’ was the fact that somehow, her gag reflex had completely disappeared. Completely. We did, in the interest of research, try a non-hypnotised ‘best blowjob in the world’ later on and her gag reflex had returned. Weird. It’s amazing the power the mind has over the body!
There were far too many suggestions planted over the weekend to list them all but here are a few of my favorites. Transplanting all clitoral feeling into L’s nipples, then her fingers and finally, the tip of her nose which was particularly fun :-D. As was installing a 1-10 pleasure scale, 1 being light stimulation and 10 a full blown orgasm. What was particularly fun about this was that I planted it while we were making food, lets just say that L found it particularly difficult to make her food while bordering on an orgasm hehe. One thing that was interesting was that we have found that while L can get very close to an orgasm, she can’t actually get a full release purely through hypno stimulation. Something for us to work on.
What I consider the most powerful suggestion that I used over the weekend was one where I managed to get L to forget my name and replace it with Master. Now, this is something she calls me when I desire, and usually while in play, but to get her to completely forget my name was an interesting experience and I feel my biggest hypnotic accomplishment so far. When I asked my name the reply came “Master”. “No, what’s my real name?”. “It’s Master, I’ve never been allowed to know your real name” came the reply. I found it very interesting how when her brain couldn’t find the information that it needed, it made a story to fill in the gap. Not that her submission needs much encouraging most of the time, but I added in a suggestion or two about how she would become incredibly submissive. Ahhh, the fun I had with that one :D.
It isn’t half fun to be able to switch your girlfriend between horny, submissive or just plain old happy and energetic!
Enough for now, it’ll be a few weeks till our next hypno exploit so I’ll update then. Who knows, I may even remember something interesting enough to blog about, or remember something I forgot to mention, in the meantime.
J
I went through a little pre-talk I had come up with and then worked my way through the induction that I had slightly modified. All the signs were good, L was clearly going under. After using a few deepeners I felt it was time to plant a post hypnotic suggestion that L would return to a hypnotic state whenever she was given the command to sleep. I woke her up and asked her how it felt, she said she felt good and it was a strange experience. Then I commanded her to sleep, and to my genuine surprise it worked. She was back under. At this point I have to admit it was quite hard not to jump up and down with excitement but I managed to compose myself and carry on.
I worked through another deepener and figured it was time to try some suggestions out. The first suggestion I gave was that her hands would become stuck to the sofa, brought her back up and nothing. Her hands were nowhere near stuck. In an effort not to lose confidence and momentum, I put L back under and told her she'd no longer be able to bend her arm. Her arm would now be a single block of wood with no bends or joints. Then I instructed her to try and bend her arm, this time I had succeeded. Once again the desire to jump up and down, and do a jig of happiness washed over me but somehow I managed to keep my composure again. Back under she went and I tried out a few other suggestions, some which worked, some didn’t. I didn’t much care what worked and what didn’t at this point as I was still in shock that L had gone into trance and was reacting perfectly to her sleep commands.
We made our way to the kitchen to grab a drink when in a moment of excitement at my newfound skill, I commanded her to sleep. I couldn’t think of anything to try, I had worked through all the mundane hypno suggestions I could think of. Then a light bulb went off – why not see if you can get some sexual fun out of all this hypno stuff. “In a moment I’m going to get you to wake up, when you do, you will have the overwhelming desire to give me the a blow job”. Then lightbulb number two – “Infact, you will give me the best blow job in the world, the best blowjob that anyone has ever given in the history of blowjobs” (or something to that effect at least). Now, I didn’t expect this to work. I don’t think L did either, actually when I brought her up, the first thing she said to me was “that didn’t work”. Literally as she had finished those words she grabbed me by the trousers and dragged me to the bedroom. Next thing I know I am on the receiving end of a bloody good blowjob, I’d even go as far as to say the best blowjob in the world :P. Some may say that she was just acting, that this was nothing to do with hypnosis. What convinced me that this was not ‘faking’ or ‘playing along’ was the fact that somehow, her gag reflex had completely disappeared. Completely. We did, in the interest of research, try a non-hypnotised ‘best blowjob in the world’ later on and her gag reflex had returned. Weird. It’s amazing the power the mind has over the body!
There were far too many suggestions planted over the weekend to list them all but here are a few of my favorites. Transplanting all clitoral feeling into L’s nipples, then her fingers and finally, the tip of her nose which was particularly fun :-D. As was installing a 1-10 pleasure scale, 1 being light stimulation and 10 a full blown orgasm. What was particularly fun about this was that I planted it while we were making food, lets just say that L found it particularly difficult to make her food while bordering on an orgasm hehe. One thing that was interesting was that we have found that while L can get very close to an orgasm, she can’t actually get a full release purely through hypno stimulation. Something for us to work on.
What I consider the most powerful suggestion that I used over the weekend was one where I managed to get L to forget my name and replace it with Master. Now, this is something she calls me when I desire, and usually while in play, but to get her to completely forget my name was an interesting experience and I feel my biggest hypnotic accomplishment so far. When I asked my name the reply came “Master”. “No, what’s my real name?”. “It’s Master, I’ve never been allowed to know your real name” came the reply. I found it very interesting how when her brain couldn’t find the information that it needed, it made a story to fill in the gap. Not that her submission needs much encouraging most of the time, but I added in a suggestion or two about how she would become incredibly submissive. Ahhh, the fun I had with that one :D.
It isn’t half fun to be able to switch your girlfriend between horny, submissive or just plain old happy and energetic!
Enough for now, it’ll be a few weeks till our next hypno exploit so I’ll update then. Who knows, I may even remember something interesting enough to blog about, or remember something I forgot to mention, in the meantime.
J
Hello and Welcome!
Welcome to our blog, Hypnorotica!
Before we get into the hypno side of things it's probably best I give a little background. I'm one half of a couple who have recently found the wonders of hypnosis. We're a very normal couple. Well we like to think we're normal anyway. We have a large number of kinks and they will no doubt come out over time through this blog so we won't send you running in fear just yet... :-D. So now to the reason for this blog -The plan is to detail our progression through the world of hypnosis and get/give advice and help along the way.
A few months ago while trawling through profiles on Collarme, a sort of personals site for those into BDSM (that's kink one out of the bag then lol), I stumbled across the profile of a couple that are into hypnosis. Before that moment, I had always thought of hypnosis as something done on stage with the sole purpose of embarrassing the hell out of volunteers or being used to help people quit smoking and the like. Suddenly, my eyes were opened to a world of wonderful new possibilities.After an email to said couple and a very helpful reply, it was time to try hypnosis for the first time. It was, as many first times are, a complete let down. I had no clue what I was doing but nevertheless I expected it to work. So 10 minutes later we decided to file it away as a failed experience and then didn’t really think any more about it.
Fast forward to 2 weeks ago and while trying desperately hard to avoid doing any university work I decided it was time to give hypnosis a second go.This time I did my research correctly. I found some good inductions online and I read about how these inductions work. It’s a lot to take in to start with, but my goodness was it worth it!
For now, I shall leave it there. The next entry will detail what actually happened in my first attempt and is already in the process of being written so should be up soon.If anyone actually ever stumbles across this then do please feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think. Hopefully, I will be able to convince L to write an entry in the not to distant future too!
J
Before we get into the hypno side of things it's probably best I give a little background. I'm one half of a couple who have recently found the wonders of hypnosis. We're a very normal couple. Well we like to think we're normal anyway. We have a large number of kinks and they will no doubt come out over time through this blog so we won't send you running in fear just yet... :-D. So now to the reason for this blog -The plan is to detail our progression through the world of hypnosis and get/give advice and help along the way.
A few months ago while trawling through profiles on Collarme, a sort of personals site for those into BDSM (that's kink one out of the bag then lol), I stumbled across the profile of a couple that are into hypnosis. Before that moment, I had always thought of hypnosis as something done on stage with the sole purpose of embarrassing the hell out of volunteers or being used to help people quit smoking and the like. Suddenly, my eyes were opened to a world of wonderful new possibilities.After an email to said couple and a very helpful reply, it was time to try hypnosis for the first time. It was, as many first times are, a complete let down. I had no clue what I was doing but nevertheless I expected it to work. So 10 minutes later we decided to file it away as a failed experience and then didn’t really think any more about it.
Fast forward to 2 weeks ago and while trying desperately hard to avoid doing any university work I decided it was time to give hypnosis a second go.This time I did my research correctly. I found some good inductions online and I read about how these inductions work. It’s a lot to take in to start with, but my goodness was it worth it!
For now, I shall leave it there. The next entry will detail what actually happened in my first attempt and is already in the process of being written so should be up soon.If anyone actually ever stumbles across this then do please feel free to leave a comment and let me know what you think. Hopefully, I will be able to convince L to write an entry in the not to distant future too!
J
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